The Single Woman’s Dash of Sass: How to Avoid Being a Stage 5 Clinger
Quotes of the Day:
“Are you a piece of Saran Wrap? Well, then why are you acting so clingy?” ~Lisa Harrison
“In your neediness you repel, in your completeness you attract.” ~Esther Hicks
The Single Woman Says:
No man likes a woman that sucks the life out of him. You’ve got to let go if you want the relationship to grow. Don’t call him 15 times a day. Don’t text him incessantly. Don’t spend all day stalking him on Facebook or Twitter. A man senses when you are operating out of fear rather than confidence, and it is a massive turnoff. If he’s calling and coming around and wanting to spend time with you, there’s no need for you to be in a constant state of panic about the status of your relationship. Stop ringing the alarm (and his phone) and just BREATHE. Let go of your need to control the situation and just let things play out. If this is The One, all the pieces of the puzzle will fall into place, without your assistance. And if it’s not The One, why do you want to hang onto him for dear life, anyway? A relationship cannot grow in the shade of fear and insecurity, so stop blocking the sun and start having some fun! Relax. Laugh. Smile. Let him come to you. Stop clingin’ and start singin’!