The Single Woman’s Dash of Sass: Is He Moving Mountains to be With You…or Hiding Behind Them?

Quote of the Day:

“A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves.” ~Greg Behrendt

The Single Woman Says:

I get a lot of questions from ladies – beautiful, amazing, worthy, successful, got-it-going-on ladies – to the effect of: “If he’s not calling me, what does that mean?” and “We went out once and he never asked me out again. Do you think he’s just shy?” and “He wants to sleep with me but he doesn’t want to DATE me. Do you think he cares about me?”

It makes my heart hurt to see these fierce, fabulous females SO twisted up inside about guys that don’t even deserve a second glance – let alone a third or fourth of fifth chance. In no way am I male bashing or man hating, but the cold, hard truth is: If a man WANTS to be with you, he will make his actions clear. There won’t be any questions, murkiness, cloudiness, or fear. He won’t be “too busy.” He won’t be “intimidated by you.” He won’t be “scared of commitment.” He won’t be married or otherwise spoken for. And he won’t be sleeping with you but not dating you.

Bottom line: Let’s make a pact, right now, to start off 2012 RIGHT. To kick anything to the curb that isn’t good for us. To take out the trash. To stop making excuses and start making changes.

The wonderful, beautiful thing that happens when you rid yourself of the things that don’t see your worth? You make space in your life for all the glorious things you deserve. And I can’t think of a better Christmas present to give yourself than that.